I have the good fortune of being associated with two wonderful couples counselors and am able to work in concert with them for their clients. I utilize EMDR to achieve this.
Utilizing EMDR in this setting involves focusing on the impasse or blockage in the couple’s relationship. Most of the time it is anger or fear. Sometimes, it involves a mental health concern such as depression or anxiety where these issues are negatively impacting the relationship.
The results are most favorable with the spouse/partner gaining insight into their issues. Thus returning back to couples counseling with a new perspective and an ability to move forward in their couples sessions and relationship.
The primary therapists report favorable results when the spouse/partner returns to their sessions. One of the therapists has told me several times “you make my job so much easier”. I believe her.